Sherry: and also my gal said dont date guys if they r older than 35
Sherry: if they r still single, they have issue. they probably will never get married
Sherry: well, true
Sherry: but look at u, wrong
Kendal: Your gf is correct
Sherry: WTF
Kendal: but
Sherry: then how u explain abt urself
Kendal: only in the context of 'A guy older than 35, dating a girl in early 20's will not get married to her'
Sherry: i did ask several guy friends, they all thought so
Kendal: Not that he won't get married, just he wont be taking that one seriously
Kendal: So if he ONLY dates the young girls, he is avoiding the pressure of marrige and serious relationship and might have issues
Sherry: hmm make sense
Sherry: whats wrong with gals in their 20s?
Kendal: but nothing wrong with dating a young girl for fun, but need to be also meeting more appropriate girls
Sherry: whats in ur guys' mind
Kendal: too young, generational gap.
Sherry: huh?
Kendal: just a different mind set
Kendal: you'll know when you are 35
Sherry: ah i c
Sherry: good to know. will have to share this with my gals
Kendal: you will think 'wow I thought I knew so much at 24' now I see how young I was'
Sherry: me?
Kendal: It's not that you cant be mature for your age, but there will still be a difference, even in energy. a 40 year old guy isnt clubbing til 4 am
Kendal: yes you.
Kendal: also
Kendal: young girls are more unpredictable, guys dont want that drama for a seriously relationship, stablity (assuming they want a serious relationship)
Kendal: so, if meet a guy, and last 3 gfs were 28-35 and he is 35, it might be ok, but if all dating 20-25, you are just another fun time
Kendal: if thats fine with you, all good, but nothing serious will happen.

Kendal: ok, dear I need to get going. Good to hear from you. Chat soon.